Wednesday, July 28, 2010

If the Bible is supposed to be taken literally than is the whole thing about the mustard seed gardening advice?

Cause it's pretty obvious that you'd want to plant in fertile, soft soil where people don't walk all the time.If the Bible is supposed to be taken literally than is the whole thing about the mustard seed gardening advice?
It isn't.If the Bible is supposed to be taken literally than is the whole thing about the mustard seed gardening advice?
Literally does not mean wooden literalism


It means in the sense of the literature





A tree contrasted against a little seed shows that the word of God can start small in a person and grow greatly, it can also grow in time and history in the believers down through the ages





It means use the normal rules for language and literature and the Bible is true in the sense claimed
You obviously don't understand how people spoke in the society during the time-period in which it was written.
It needs a mechanics section.
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    An au pair, for those that dont know, it kind of like a babysitter that lives in the house. I really want to do this in another country.I want to be an au pair next year, and advice on how to get in to a good program?
    Hello.I run an au pair agency in Italy and I will be happy to help you, giving you all the necessary information and finding a good family for you. Free of charge to au pairs. Please, contact me at annaparavia@tin.it.Ciao.AnnaI want to be an au pair next year, and advice on how to get in to a good program?
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    Female wants to be become licensed and buy first motorcycle. Advice?

    I am a 21 year old female looking to get my first bike this spring. I am very athletic, 5'6';, 130 lbs. My boyfriend has a bike and has been giving me some tips. Any suggestions on a bike? Preferably a cruiser. I drive a stick shift car so is learning to ride a motorcycle similar? Is it hard to learn how to drive it and shift the gears? Should I get a bike for under $1,000 to learn on, since I read most people will crash their bike while learning. Will I crash? Do you think it is too dangerous for me to learn? Help! Thanks!Female wants to be become licensed and buy first motorcycle. Advice?
    here's a typical mistake a rookie will make. grabbing the front brake when the bars are turned and the bike is at very low speed...under 5 mph. if u do, the bike instantly drops to the ground like it became magnitized, and once it starts to drop, there's no catching it. so, rule number 1: never grab the front brake with the bars turned at low speed.





    rule #2: the bike will go where u look. never fixtate on anything u dont want the bike to hit or run over. this can save ur life in an emergency situation where u have to duck that azzmunch cage driver that almost left-turned u. never look at the cage, look at ur escape route to bypass the idiot.





    what makes riding dangerous is the amount of cell phone cagers that are out there....watch for them cause they sure as hell aint watchin for u. with ur height, u could easily handle a ultra classic or a gold wing. shifting is a snap. is the same m.o. as u would in a standard shift car. just remember, ride like ur invisible, and u'll bring her home in 1 piece everytime. always respect the bike...it wont respect u.


    i prefer a cruiser over rockets. the cruiser's are easier to see, the rockets have much slimmer profiles, and them dam things are a ***** to spot in heavy traffic. the reason why peeps crash....they get a super high powered rice rocket and they've never been on a scoot, they ride beyond their skill level; like, trying to blaze 50 mph in a 30 mph corner. they fail to ride as their invisible, and instead ride like they own the road and not ride defensively.





    if u do get a harley, belive it or not, u would enjoy how the road king handles. very smooth ride, and the low center of gravity makes low speed turning effortless. if u cant afford a harley, a bud of mine rides a kawasaki vulcan 2000, and he says it rides like its on glass. dont let the size of the cruiser intimidate ya. the bigger bikes offer the smoothest ride, they're usually low slung, and even the big ultra classic is very well balanced. i'm used to a sportster, and the ultra feels very balanced with my style of riding. i would recommend u gettin a video or 2 from ride like a pro. the instructor is an ex florida highway patrol motor cop. using his techniques, i can easily handle threading the sporty in very tight places. the link will be below. enjoy the road.Female wants to be become licensed and buy first motorcycle. Advice?
    If it wasn't a little dangerous it just wouldn't be fun.


    Riding a motorcycle isn't anything even similar to driving a car.


    You will have to develop a skill and a sense to watch out for the stupid things that other drivers do.


    The more you ride a motorcycle the more the drivers in the cars start to all look like chimpanzees.


    Most riders have dropped a bike at least one time while learning.


    Watch out for gravel and slick roads and idiots in cars and you will be just fine, go and get your motorcycle and have some fun.
    Most importantly, take the Motorcycle Safety Foundation class in your area. You don't have to have riding experience to take it and you will learn tips about riding that you will use the rest of your life. Plus, they provide the bikes so if you drop them it doesn't hurt your pocketbook.





    For a first bike I recommend the Honda Shadow VLX 600. It is a small enough that the bike's weight won't be an issue and yet it has enough power to cruise long highway distances. You should be able to pick up one at a reasonable price. I would avoid buying a cheap bike. If it doesn't run well you won't enjoy your riding. You don't want to have to worry about whether or not the bike will run while you are learning to ride. Avoid buying a 250cc motorcycle as you will quickly find you want more horsepower. Other good options are the Kawasaki Vulcan 500 and the Yamaha V-Star 650. If you're in the Harley market, I do not recommend trying to learn to ride on a Sportster 883 (the cheapest model) because the center of gravity is high.





    Learning to control the clutch and throttle are two of the most important things you will learn about riding. It doesn't really matter if you've driven a stick before, but at least you understand the principle of the ';friction zone';. The MSF class will give you a lot of practice with that also.





    It is not a given that you will ever crash. It is likely that at some point you will drop your bike, but dropping your bike is not a tragedy and as long as you don't wrestle with it, you generally won't get hurt when it happens. Most of us drop the bike when we grab the front brake and don't have our feet down (or park without the kickstand). I (knocking on wood) have been riding for 5 years and haven't crashed. I have had a few drops though, as have most of the guys %26amp; gals I ride with.





    As long as you remember that when riding a motorcycle it is imperative that you ride defensively, then you will not find it ';too dangerous';. It is certainly more hazardous than driving a car, but it is more enjoyable too. You just have to keep an eye out and expect the worst from other drivers. As long as you stay alert and prepared you give yourself a chance to avoid crashing.
    1. take MSF course





    2. get bike....ninja 250, gs500, or similar cc cruiser.





    3. have fun, ride safe!!!
    First thing to do is take a course. That way you'll know if you even like riding and can also come to terms with it. Riding a bike IS more dangerous than driving a car, and you have to decide if the extra risk is worth it to you. I decided it was, and don't regret that decision at all (even after my accident by some dingy in a car). Also, definitely buy a used bike first. I dropped my first bike in the gravel in my driveway. Sucks to admit that, but hey it happens. I ask people if they can drive a stick only because if you can't even learn stick, don't bother with a bike. So, good luck to you- I think you will really like it! Oh yeah, the ride is so much better when you have your own rather than on the back:):)
    U have my full support. Girls who ride bikes are great. Especially at your age, its more affordable. Its not like you are going to ride it till you turn 60. Yeah. But im not residing in US so i dunno about the bikes there. But if you could afford one, u could try the y2k. Or vespa. It would be a thrilling experience.





    ps: Nothing is too dangerous to learn. The ability and desire to learn is what makes us intelligent beings.
    You shouldn't have problems learning to ride. It's similiar to shifting a car. What I suggest is taking a riders safety course. You use their bikes so if you drop them it's not your bike. They'll teach you all you need to know to stay safe and to ride. Plus you'll get your licensing one you pass. It takes a while after that to get road experience and be careful of other drivers. I wouldn't say people crash while learning. You're more apt to drop it. It's the slow moving stuff when you're less experience where people goof up. Getting a cheap bike for the first year isn't a bad idea. That's what i did, then got a Fat Boy. It's a cruiser. I always tell women not to let their smaller size stop them from riding a bigger bike. If you know what you're doing it's not a problem. Take the course, buy your bike and welcome to the family!!
    Going off the information you provided about yourself I would suggest a Honda Shadow as your first cruiser bike, and I guarantee you fall head over heels in love with the ride.


    Clutch on a motorcycle is very similar to riding a dirt bike (if your familiar) otherwise its only similar to a stick on a car in the sense of coordination.


    It is not hard to ride or learn, the best thing for you to do is go to TEAM. Its a Arizona based driving school for motorcycle riders. You can rent anything you need there, including a motorcycle. If you are afraid of dumping your bike you will most likely dump it in the worst way. The first thing to learn about riding is to know how to correctly lay down the vehicle. In Arizona riding and shifting are the least of your worries, you must be very defensive in this state. Not many people are aware of motorcycles, and because we have so many winter visitors (who can never see anything) its a very defensive ride. But learning the ropes and going on cruises to Lake Havasu, Lake Powell, Canyon Lake, and many of our other wonderful rides really make it all worth while.


    Remember, Learning (anything) is never dangerous! :)


    Take Care!
    Two things are extremely important.





    Take a class. The Motorcycle Safety Foundation and local community colleges are two places to look.





    Wear excellent safety gear. Good helmet, jacket and pants (protective gear, not fashion stuff), hand and foot protection. All the gear, all the time.





    Any good motorcycle shop can steer you to the right stuff if you make it very clear that's what you want.





    The bike is way less important. A cruiser is a good bike to start with.
    You probably should get a cheap bike to get started on - depending on where you live, winter is a great time to buy one because if you live where it is cold, most people are getting tired of having them fill up their shed or garage and will sell for less.





    I would recommend a 150-175cc enduro style bike (kind of a cross between street and off-road, check around for older yamahas, that's what I started on). It will have enough power to get around, but won't shoot out from underneath you (really only a problem with high powered sport bikes), plus it will be light, so it will be easier to handle.





    Riding a motorcycle is just like riding a bike, except without the pedaling (or the health benefit) - once you get going fast enough you have to remember to counter steer - lean the direction you want to go, but actually push the handlebars the opposite direction. Try it out in a big parking lot to get the hang of it. Shifting is a breeze - actually easier than a car for two reasons - your throttle is in your left hand, and the clutch is in your right, so getting the right RPM's and releasing the clutch is simple. If you have to you can just squeeze the clutch back in. Most bikes shift with your left foot - one step down for first, then a click up (past neutral) into second, third-fifth (or sixth) just keep clicking up.





    Get comfortable with the way the bike handles (since they are all a little bit different) and make sure to get used to going through curves - that's one of the major reasons for wrecks - when someone starts feeling the bike lean over they panic and sit straight up - and the bike goes in a straight line. Once you are used to it, curves are the coolest thing about a motorcycle.





    The biggest danger on a bike is other cars - if you don't take any other piece of advice from this answer, take this one: pretend you are invisible to other drivers (it's not far from the truth) or better yet, pretend like they are actually TRYING to hit you (still not far from the truth). That way when someone doesn't pull across three lanes to wipe you out, you'll be pleasantly surprised.





    With a little common sense, and some practice, you can get a lot of enjoyment out of riding - it's the ultimate anti-depressant, and like someone said once 'when you drive a car, it's like watching a movie, when you ride a motorcycle you are IN the movie'.





    As far as bikes to get once you get more comfortable, decide what style you want - I'm currently riding an '06 Suzuki Boulevard C50 (805cc), fuel injected, shaft driven, and liquid cooled. It's an awesome cruiser, MUCH cheaper than a Harley (which have gotten way out of hand), easy to handle, looks nice, has plenty of power (the C90 has a little more torque, but adds more weight), the M50/90 is a little sportier looking. Most manufacturers have started making 'naked sport bikes' that are similar to the crotch-rockets, but without the huge fairings, the suzuki bandit is an example of this.





    Good luck - be safe, and have fun!!
    Take the Motorcycle Safety Foundation (MSF) beginning rider course. In most States, if you have your permit, when you pass the course, you get your license.





    You'll do 4 hours in the classroom on a Friday evening. Then 2 8-hour days riding and classroom for Sat. %26amp; Sunday. Best of all they supply the bike.





    Don't worry about what to buy until after you've taken the course. There are different types of bikes. Depending on how you want to ride, you can choose a sport tourer (crotch rocket), cruiser (Harley type), standard, dual (for road and off-road) or luxury tourer (Goldwing). You might even want to try a scooter first. They're very popular and come in a lot of different sizes.





    Learn how to ride first though.
    Here's the best bike for any female who's under 5'7'; and not over 150 lbs.





    Just get the Ninja 250R sport bike. It's fast and brand new they cost 3400.00 us.





    Here's a link for an article written by a friend who rode one on a 700 mile trip.





    The Only other bike I would suggest for a female is the Suzuki GSXR 600cc. Great bike.
    you could get any size bike, i have friends your size that own full size Harley's. a word of advice though. take your drivers license road test on as small a bike as you can. it will make the cone course much much easier. they have you perform maneuvers on the cone course you'd never have to do on the street. also i would advise a guy to do the same thing.
    You're lucky - you're tall enough that you'll be able to get pretty much any bike you want without needing to have it lowered. I'm jealous.





    First take the safety course. After you take the class and get a bike, find an empty parking lot to practice in. Go as often as you can and ride around in circles, practicing all kinds of manuevers. When you really feel comfy, hit the road.





    It wouldn't be a bad idea to start on a used smaller bike if you can find one. Really anything that weights 400(ish) pounds or less will be great.





    Understanding how a clutch works WILL put you one up on those who don't, but it's not a huge advantage. I took the course with a friend - I drive 5 speed and she doesn't. She stalled a few times and I didn't. But it didn't take her long to get up to speed.





    It's not at all difficult to learn - you'll be surprised how easy it is.
    It looks like you're thinking at least. Yes, there are three types of riders, those who have wrecked, those who are going to wreck, and those who have and lie about it and say they haven't.


    Riding a bike is somewhat similar, it uses a clutch. You have to be able to use both hands and both feet all at the same time.


    Go with a cheaper bike at first, even a dirt bike, something you can drop and not panic about the paint job. You be careful, think about what you're doing, respect the bike and know your abilities, you may be able to delay your wreck until later.


    Take the MSF course, a couple of reasons, first and most important, they will teach you how to ride correctly. Second, it's cheaper on your insurance.





    Good Luck, and hopefully, welcome to the open road. Nothing else like it, promise
    In the UK many more women are learning to ride and it's not before time





    Only advise I can give is based on UK ruling. Here you can have training and gain a full unlimited licence (Direct Access) but it seems a definately good idea to have professional training. These guys know what they are doing and will train you properly. Regards crashing well thats a bit up to you. Try to ride as safe as you can and remember that the car driver is more likely to ';not see you'; so see him first, maybe go out with your boyfriend to get a bit of riding experience. Choice of bike is up to you there is plenty to choose from. A Harley softail is quite low riding position or maybe a sportster. Plenty in the Japanese range. Don't be too hasty and hang on to you dollars until you find the bike that suits you


    You work hard for your dough and it is all too easily spent





    Whatever happens good luck with the training, ride safely and stay upright
    First, your definatly tall enough to ride a bike on your own. Second, if you can balance the bike, no problem. Third, you should take a rider safty course in your area. This will allow you to obtain your license, as long as you pass your course, when you go to the DMV.Learning to ride a bike should not be that hard for someone like yourself if your as athletic as you say you are. Shifting gears is not too complicated, most bikes are first gear down and the next four are up with the left foot.If you get a new Harley though, you'll have a sixth gear . One down and five up. Do not ride without a helmet!!! No matter who tries to say otherwise. Your not cool if your in the hospital or God forsake something worse. Also, you'll have a hard time finding a cruiser for a thousand or so. Your looking more in the range of five to ten thousand. Harley wise you wood be better off starting with an 883 since it is smaller and lighter than most bikes and more affordable.Check out your local dealers and look at some of the used bike sites on line and get a price range of the bike you would like so you don't overpay for your bike. I'm sure you'll be fine if you remember that you have to look out for everyone on the road first and then look out for yourself. Most people don't have any respect for a biker so they will take chances, pull in front of you,cut you off, things like that. You have to be very dilligent and alert when you ride. Anyway, RIDE TO LIVE, LIVE TO RIDE.
    I would stick to a car at first and then get you a bike...just practice around an area that you know very well and I think it is too dangerous only because i am not that type of risk taker you are more likely to die on a bike if you crash vs. the car and having a seatbelt on plus the weather always tells you if you can ride it or not so yeah i think it woul dbe cool to get one and learn but not use it as primary transportation...good luck to you and y es you should buy a cheap bike first or why not just learn on your boyfriends bike? good luck
    It's easier than driving a car and the fact you understand gears is a big advantage. Girls who ride bikes are cool!!! You probably won't crash if you're careful, but everyone drops their first bike at some point so don't get anything you can't lift back up again. Good luck, you'll love it.
    buy a used bike to start with and if you can drive a stick you can do a bike,to practice have your bf ride on back and start riding in a empty field so if things don`t go good you and your bf will not get hurt and if you dump it ,get right back on


    practice makes perfect.


    i love riding bikes and driving them
    Find out whom in your area has an Motorcycle Safety Foundation Basic Riders Course, and sign up for it. Many parks departments and community colleges have them.


    Most H-D dealerships have their version of it called Eaglerider.


    Although someone may be teaching you, you need to learn safety foremost.


    Many folks recommend you buy a used bike first, on the thinking that 'you'll probably drop it'.


    Probably good advice.


    It's not hard to learn to shift, and since you drive a stick, it'll be easier for you to get the feel of it.


    Here's a great link to a safety-oriented website..read the tips, and don't be afraid to participate in the forums--lots of good advice:


    http://www.msgroup.org/forums/mtt/defaul鈥?/a>
    I would suggest that you check out the ';New Rider Program'; offerred by Honda. They will let you ride select bikes and will also help you get licenced. It's quite a cool program..Go to their website and look under events.. I don't think I can give you the url here as it may not show up but in case, here it is


    http://www.honda.ca/MotorcycleEng/Events/default.htm
    go through a training course. they provide the bikes and you get your license when you pass. Its a pretty good deal.
    Well, there has already been lots of good advice but i'm gonna throw in my two cents worth too. First and foremost, take the MSF Basic rider course. It's not terribly expensive when you consider that they provide the bike. It will also teach you everything you need to know to ride safe. Second, pick a bike based on what you like and what feels comfortable to you. Your comfort is the most important thing. If your not comfortable you won't be focusing on the ride like you should. Beyond that, everything else is up to you, ride like you wanna ride. Also, I would like to add a phrase that an old harley rider once told me. There are only two types of riders, those that have crashed and those that will. The explanation is that if you ride long enough odds are you will have at least one wreck. Don't let that stop you though. If you do wreck just get back up, dust yourself and get back on a bike as soon as you can. On a personal note, I think there should be more female riders. Riding isn't an exclusively male thing. Also most of the guys I know, including me, think there isn't anything better than a girl who can ride her own scoot.





    Good luck and keep the rubber side down.
    Take a basic rider course.


    http://www.msf-usa.org/index_new.cfm?spl鈥?/a>
    at 5'6'; you are the right size. can your feet touch the ground? there area lot of pretty good jap bikes out there. I would look for at least 800cc. I don't think $1000 will be enough. yes you will fall down IF YOU AREN'T paying attention.
    i'm with you girl to girl.


    i advise a safety course, you will learn alot. the gears are different, although you have the understanding of shifting, try not to compare it except for the sound of the rpm's. have confidence. it is only a dangerous as you make it or others on the road, but you only live once. i did it because i wanted to be in control. i didn't want to be on the back with my husband anymore.
    well hi. im a 20 year old female, similar build. i learned to ride about 7 months ago. i learned on a buell blast, they are very beginner-rider friendly. i would suggest a bike that you wouldnt mind scuffing up. cruisers are ginormous monsters to handle. i think you should start off with something a little easier to handle, and more friendly.


    in reference to your stick shift...i drive one. i dont think there is much similarity, except the fact that there is a clutch. now the fact that you know how to slip the clutch is going to be very beneficial to learning.


    it isnt that hard to learn how to drive it, but it is a little more difficult to learn to ride well.


    if you have any more questions, feel free to email or IM me
    if you are looking for a cruiser then try a small bike like the honda rebel , there are others out there , dont bother with a bike under $ 1000 - it will just frustrate you . after a couple years you can trade your small bike up to something bigger , and please take a course from some motorcycle driving school .
    Harley Davidson offers classes, you learn on small bikes, take the class first before buying a bike. It will be a good investment in your life. Not only do they teach you the fundamentals, but they teach you emergency techniques if you should ever have to lay your bike down to avoid an accident. Some bikes are automatic now and you do not have to change gears or kick start.
    My advise is to increase your life insurance first.

    I need your advice! I cant get a girlfriend because Im a loser, so how can I be less of a loser?

    What are some good general tips to follow to avoid being a loser?I need your advice! I cant get a girlfriend because Im a loser, so how can I be less of a loser?
    you dont have to change anything. if youdo, you will not be yourself. be patient.I need your advice! I cant get a girlfriend because Im a loser, so how can I be less of a loser?
    Angry stick man needs a popped collar.
    get a life, get some self esteem, get rich if all else fails.
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    I would reccomend the Blackberry World Edition phone. The only phones that work out of country from the us are the World Edition phones. You can hook it up to your notebook for a small monthly charge and get internet access.Will be going to London for 3 weeks. Need a pay as u go mobile phone %26amp; broadband access. Any advice anyone?
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    What would your advice be to a noob fighter?!?

    If you had to give advice to someone who never fought before and had to do it for self defense, what would it be? Also, does the forty five degree punch to the chin actually work and how do you do it? Any punching/block teniques are appreciated.





    ThanksWhat would your advice be to a noob fighter?!?
    If you are talking about a street fight, then the number one rule to always remember is that there are no rules. Anything goes and anything can happen. Also, if you should be the first to fall to the ground, get up ASAP by any means possible and necessary.





    If you are referring to boxing, know that the jab is the most important punch. Please don't confuse importance with power, because the jab is not the strongest punch. The jab can be used in many ways and reasons, like setting up for other shots or disrupting your opponent's fight plan.What would your advice be to a noob fighter?!?
    For once, I'll grudgingly agree with Woody. No rules, it's adapt or die. A fight really is simply attempted murder with knuckles, yours against his. I've never heard of the 45 degree punch. If you could please explain it. I'd think that whatever part of the chin you're aiming at, you'd want to land perpendicularly.





    Advice for a street fight? Don't do it unless you have to, there's no ref to stop you from becoming a corpse. Try to find some kind of martial arts that also teaches street fighting techniques. I studied taekwon do, which was fine, but if you used strictly that in a street fight, you can find yourself lost when you realize you dont have a good block against a sweeping hook.





    Ok, let's see, techniques for self defense...I'm often surprised how inexperienced people somehow think there's a magic combination punch or technique that will win the day. Strap on a pair of gloves, find a sparring partner, and get used to taking and throwing. Then you'll be able to keep cool under fire. Some pub-fighting slob starts winging shots at you, if you already understand punching range, you'll be able to make him miss with little effort. But reading messages on the net will in no way, in itself, make you better in a scrap. So practice.
    I will answer this from the streetfighting aspect only.





    I agree with the above sentiments, there are no rules. Where I disagree is that there is some kind of martial art that can get you equipped for a street fight. Remember, just because you are fighting on asphalt does not connotate you are having a streetfight.





    In most cases, the idea of ';self defense'; will get you killed. There is no ';block/parry/kick'; combo that you should be thinking of. Keep in mind ';defense wounds'; is a term that is used in a coroners office.





    Bottom line: Street fight, you hit first, you hit dirty, you hit to stop them where they are. A buffoon works on punching someone harder to see how thick their skull is, and rendering a fifty fifty shot. A STREETFIGHTER will jam his fingers as deep as he can in someones eyes for the first shot (yeah try to be a bad *** after that) or chop/punch someone in the throat (run after that one, fifty fifty chance he may or may not make it)...or grabs someone by their groin tight enough to feel his fingertips touch his palms, lift up high and pull towards you (with any luck some of it will tear off and he will black out).





    THESE are the rules of streetfighting....you dont think in terms of martial arts, you think in terms of modern warfare in the trenches when your rifle is out of ammunition. To survive, you have to hit when someone isnt looking, stomp your heel into the top of someones foot to crush the bones in the top, tear off an ear...grab a head and bite the nose on the bridge.





    Streetfighting is not taught in martial arts schools, and MMA does not simulate it. Anyone that thinks Chuck Liddell could hold me in a submission after I bit a chunk out of the nearest limb to me is unrealistic.





    And again, I say this. If you have to ask the question, you have no business fighting anyway. Cause where as you may or may not agree with my rules...someone else already uses them and nine times out of ten in a streetfight that is who you will encounter.





    So, either fight hard, or dont bother.

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  • If you could offer one piece of advice you have learned that could really help someone? What would it be?

    We all learn lessons and tidbits of wisdom throughout our lives - sometimes very painful lessons. If you could pull someone aside that was maybe a bit younger than yourself and you wanted to give them the most candid bit of advice about life that you could, what would it be? Maybe a lesson that you wished somebody would have grabbed you and made you listen to a long time ago. Maybe it was something you learned only after living for so many years and seeing the big picture. Maybe it's something that you learned only after it was too late to correct. What if you could share your knowledge with the world and help others do better. I'm curious in a serious way so please keep the one-liners to a minimum.If you could offer one piece of advice you have learned that could really help someone? What would it be?
    Courtesy costs nothing so use it freely.


    Never criticize someone until you've walked a mile in their footsteps.


    Remember, we all share the human condition so respect one another and play nice.


    Sadly, old men talk and young men die. It is the way of the world.If you could offer one piece of advice you have learned that could really help someone? What would it be?
    Lots of appropriate answers, but here are a few really important ones.





    1. Your reputation is all you have, do nothing to have it called into question.





    2. You are here on this earth to make it a better place.





    3. Nothing is more important than family, love them unconditionally.





    4. Never do anything you can't tell your grandmother about!!
    Well, you're not going to like this, but..........








    There would be no problems anywhere, EVER, if people actually did treat others the way they wanted to be treated.





    Life could be SO simple.





    AND GOOD.
    Respect yourself...if you do then your choices will be wise. Wish I could live by it!
    Live life fully and honestly. Change what you can, accept what you cannot change. Be smart enough to know the difference.
    Save your money invest in an IRA.


    I also heard to Love thy nieghbor thogh sometimes impossible.
    I don't know that I could have ever really heard or understood any of the lessons, however wisely imparted. I knew too much already.





    I have found the Desiderata to be the most helpful, especially the following stanza:





    ';You are a child of the universe,/no less than the trees and the stars;/you have a right to be here./And whether or not it is clear to you,/no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.';
    Several things I wish I had learned earlier in life:





    It's none of my business what other people think of me. And its corollary that not everyone will like me, it's their problem not mine.





    Kindness is just as easy, and often easier than, the reverse; add some to the world every day.





    Gossip is always about making ourselves feel better at someone else's expense.....avoid it.
    Love Beauty. Anything you do, if you do it with Love, down to the smallest of menial tasks, can be a fulfilling and rewarding experience for you and others.There is Beauty in all things, in all situations, in all people. If you learn to appreciate this beauty, and love it, then your whole life becomes an act of worship, meaningful in and of itself, regardless of any percieved successes or failures. Its as simple as that. Verb and Noun, Yang and Yin, Love Beauty.
    There was a man who had four sons.





    He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly, so he sent them each on a quest to go look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.





    The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer and the youngest son in the fall.





    When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.





    The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent and twisted.





    The second son said, no, it was covered with green buds and full of promise.





    The third son disagreed. He said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful. It was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.





    The last son disagreed with all of them. He said it was ripe and drooping with fruit....full of life and fulfillment.





    The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen only one season in the tree's life.





    He told them that you can not judge a tree, or a person, by only one season.





    The essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy and love that come from life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.





    If you give up when it is winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer and the fulfillment of your fall.
    I would say that you should always listen to your instincts, especially when it comes to other people. I believe that you pick up ';signals'; or body language from people, sometimes unconsciously, and your mind interprets these signals. Then it warns you if it senses that there's something not right. Sometimes the clues are even more obvious but for whatever reason, you are tempted to ignore them. Don't!!
    my friend saw this quote written in an old piece of paper somewhere in her house and she told me about it...





    ';Ad astra per aspera';





    which means





    ';A rough road leads to the stars';





    and i have used it as an advice to myself eversince...it always reminds that if i want something, i should work hard for it...the only way with which you could fine true happiness...
    This one actually occurred to me within the last two years...It really hit home...No-one told me about it, I just REALIZED it. It goes like this:


    No-one owes you anything. YOU OWE EVERYTHING TO YOURSELF.
    If something is worth doing, its worth doing well!
    one must listen well before commenting. patience is a great virtue and understanding. try always yourself in anothers position to feel their pain. Empathy ,and tolerance for everyone.
    I wish I was told by someone long ago to not take things for granted, and to think very carefully before I do something that may cause harm..to make choices based on how I would like to see things turned out..





    basically to appreciate nature, my part in nature, and not to be afraid to live simply..and treat people I don't know and /or understand with respect.

    I have a 5yr old autistic child. I will be homeschooling her and I need advice on curriculum and what works?

    I've done some investigating online and now I'm even more confused? Does the state help pay for materials/books etc? And where do you find learning material for autistic students? If anyone can help this frustrated Mom would be appreciated!I have a 5yr old autistic child. I will be homeschooling her and I need advice on curriculum and what works?
    I homeschool 3 kids. Two of them are autistic.





    I use all the ';usual'; materials everyone else uses - School of Tomorrow, Switched on Schoolhouse, Lifepacs...





    We got most of our help from HSLDA. Please go and look at their special needs section. It is helpful. Because of HSLDA we contacted one of their specialists Dianne Craft. Her website is diannecraft.com. We use her brain integration therapy manual, most of her right brain materials and her nutrition suggestions.





    Also check out nathhan.com. That site has all kinds of special needs homeschooling info.





    We even did our own speech using Straight Talk.





    HTHI have a 5yr old autistic child. I will be homeschooling her and I need advice on curriculum and what works?
    We can't tell you if your state will pay for anything if we don't know what state you are in. In general states do not pay for homeschooling(Alaska is the only exception I believe). There are virtual charter school program in many states that often gets lumped together with homeschooling, but they are in fact public schools.





    I don't know of any homeschool curriculum designed for autistic students. It would probably be best if you try to find a homeschool group for parents with autistic children. Yahoo groups is usually a good place to start.
    I have both home schooled and sent my son who has autism to a publicly funded program. The special education law states that all students with disabilities are entitled to a free and appropriate education. The law doesn't say where the education must take place or place any caps on the cost.





    The school district will not pay for homeschooling supplies. They have to continue to provide some therapy services if you home school your child, however, you may have to take your child to the speech and/or occupational therapist. You would wait while your child received the services.





    As far as what works, or finding supplies for autistic students specifically, I don't think you will. Autism is such a broad spectrum of function, that there isn't one thing that works with all students. If they are high functioning, they can use the same curriculum materials as other children. A non-verbal child or a child with significant learning delays would not be able to. Functioning is so varied and so are the materials different children with autism would learn with. Many children with autism are visual learners, so you will want things that encourage learning using this modality if your child is a visual learner. The same would be true if the child is a kinesthetic learner. You don't say how your child functions, so I would research ABA Training, also google the word discreet trial training, learning and autism key words like that. People here may tell you that the district will fight you to keep your child in school so that they don't loose funding. That hasn't been my experience at all. The cost of a free and appropriate education for a low or medium functioning autistic student is greater than the funding the district receives, yet they must by law pay for the services. Often the costs encroach on the general education funds. If this is the case, you may find that the special education department will work with you.





    Best Wishes to You!!!
    I would also check out these sources:





    www.autismspeaks.org (Cure Autism Organization) - this site should provide you with some solid information and also give you contacts to people who may assist you in setting up a solid home schooling education





    Also look at: www.halo-soma.org


    This site endorses the rapid-prompting method. If you haven't heard about this method, it is certainly something worth checking out. This lady created it and implemented it on her son... who is now known for his poetry and a recent book release. This lady has opened up a very remarkable source of study. Her methods may offer some good options for you. This website provides information on teaching the RPM. Also, the lady who created this method teaches RPM throughout the year to children 5+ and she also offers camps for children living outside of Texas to attend three times a year. Check out the website, and do a search on her and her son. I think dateline or 60 minutes did a spot on her that was very interesting and enlightening.





    Lastly, talk to your pediatrician. You need to know how severe your child's autism is. It may not be to a point of severity that home schooling 5 days a week is necessary. Your child may flourish by having interaction with other children in a controlled environment once or twice a week. If your child's autism is more severe, things like the rapid prompting method have been shown to really help children find ways to communicate (if not verbally, then by writing).





    Make sure to reach out to autistism foundations. They will provide you with support, advice, encouragement, and simply other parents who are in your shoes and can be a great source of comfort. Good luck.
    Try Yahoo Groups, too. I belong to one that deal specifically with homeschooling ';Extraordinary Kids,'; which means everything from Gifted to Autistic to Dyslexic ones...those moms have BTDT and have great info.
    HSLDA might be able to help





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    Alpha Omega


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    I want to start a commercal cleaning buisness any books or websites for help any advice would be helpful?

    You could actually call a cleaning buisness in your area and ask for the owner and ask them if they have any idea's!

    If you could give one piece of advice to a starting actress, what would it be?

    Just curious what you all think is most important if you could only tell a fellow actor/actress ONE thing about the business.If you could give one piece of advice to a starting actress, what would it be?
    Never underestimate the power of being well-trained.


    Get into acting classes.





    The second thing is: Learn how to conduct the business of being an actress. You can be the best actress in the world, but if you don't know how to get your work seen and get recognized, your talent will go to waste and you won't work.





    TonyIf you could give one piece of advice to a starting actress, what would it be?
    Become the part....
    Take a few Business courses.





    Learn how to Act.





    I know that's two, but those are the most important two.
    Don't try to be anyone other than yourself... except for when you're on camera.
    your not going to be come a star over night, and acting takes a lot of hard work especially if your going to make a career out of it
    Be prepared and willing to do any type of role. Very few people are stars.
    ';PLEASE DON'T DO IT';


    remember the above phrase before doing anything, its's frm bottom of my heart
    you hae to follow your dreams and go to calif and hollywood then you have to take acting lessons and stuff and probably be a waitress would help to move your way abit take care.
    dont ruin your intelligence, go to school first.

    Should the venerable US be taking advice from the young self-absorbed nation of Israel?

    Israeli officials are putting together a position paper on talks between the United States and Iran for the new administration in Washington, Israeli officials say. One worry is that negotiations will go on for too long.





    The paper states that talks between the United States and Iran should be limited to a short period of time. It also recommends that harsh sanctions be imposed against the Islamic Republic if negotiations fail.Should the venerable US be taking advice from the young self-absorbed nation of Israel?
    NoShould the venerable US be taking advice from the young self-absorbed nation of Israel?
    And how exactly is Israel ';young and self absorbed';?


    Countries are not people, you know.





    And for that matter, Iran, being a, lets say, antagonistic neighbour of Israel, is therefore something Israel is concerned about and likely has quite of few experts on hand who have done a full analysis on what Iran's intentions are.


    Thus, it makes sense that, at the very least, they would give the USA their advice on the situation. The USA of course, is free to listen or reject it.


    It seems that you seem to have a particular problem with that. How is that?
    We should solicit advice from EVERY country whose interests will be impacted by US/Iran talks -- even those whose interests are at odds with our own.





    However, do not mistake soliciting or accepting advice for committing to follow what advice we receive. Rather, the US must analyze all the advice and then determine what course to follow that will best advance our interests.
    Well, if what you say is true, then the Israelis know what they are talking about. It all sounds good to me.

    Would you be happy with a 13 year old babysitting your kids? I need advice?

    I'm 13 years old. I love kids and I really want to start babysitting for people. I am very mature for my age but my mum says to wait until I am older because people might not understand. I am really resonsible but I don't have much experience. Should I wait until I'm older or.... I need advice!Would you be happy with a 13 year old babysitting your kids? I need advice?
    To answer ';would i be happy with a 13yr old baby sitting my kid'; NO... i am not happy even with a 50yr old baby sitting my kid.. lol.. it depends on the person though... my mother obeys the rules i give my daughter so she's fine.. i use to be ok with my sister baby sitting until i realized she was smacking my daughter for things that weren't wrong. My mother inlaw is very mature.. but gives my daughter anything so i disagree with that... but personally i would prefer a more mature person to look after my child.. if my child was to stop breathing i would like to know that an older person could either... resuscitate them... drive them to hospital etc.. or stay calm in the situation and sometimes an 22yr old can't even stay calm.. i had a baby 15days ago and while i was in hospital my sisterinlaw was looking after my daughter and my daughter ate some medication.. *thts what happens when you take your eyes of kids* she thought it was a lolly.. anyway the sisterinlaw freaked out called my husband and said come home right now... she did not know what to do.Would you be happy with a 13 year old babysitting your kids? I need advice?
    Your mom might not be a bad person to listen to. She can see from an adults perspective how mature you are and how ready you might be to handle babysitting.


    I started babysitting kids when I was about probably 10 or 11 years old. But my mom agreed that I was mature enough (and it was a close friend of hers with only one daughter).


    Looking back though I really didn't know much, I don't think I would let a 10 year old babysit my kids. But I am pretty picky, I don't think I would let a 15 or 16 year old babysit my kids. They would have to be something special. But many people that I know would let a 13 year old babysit their kids.


    Just focus on trying to prove to your mom that you are mature and responsible enough (without pointing it out to her, because that isn't a very mature thing to do). Your time will come don't worry. You have many babysitting years still left.
    I personally wouldnt leave my children with a 13 yr old simply for the fact that 13 is just not old enough to deal with the responsability of caring for 1 or more kids for hours at a time.





    Theres also the fact of if anything happened to those kids while your babysitting and they need to get to the hospital...you dont have a drivers liscence to get them there and i doubt you could keep your cool in an emergency.





    My advice is to listen to your mum she knows best.
    how about getting experience by watching children whilst there parents are there, do you know anybody who would let you do this? my son is nearly 13 and very grown up for his age i also have a 7year old, 3year old, and 8 month old and he has looked after them a few times if ive needed to just go out for a short time and also so i can get things done in the house. I dont however think i would leave him on his own if i was to go out on an evening. I think most mums would want you to be a bit older and have more experience so if i were you id ask around friends and neighbours with children and get more knowledge of them. good luck
    I baby sat from the time i was 12-16. It was mostly neighbours and then that neighbour would recommend me to their friend and I Would get more customers. I took a baby sitting coure through st johns ambulence%26gt; I dont know where you are but im iN Canada.





    I think from like 7pm-1am whle the parents go out to dinner and a movie or something would be fine at your age. I was a bit older then 13 when I started babysitting throughout the whole summer and working while the parents were at work. I was also older when i was taking care of babies.





    theres some feed back for you. HOpe I helped
    I'm sure there are people who wouldn't mind you babysitting for them there are plenty of mature 13 year old out there the problem is that , that age group is characterized as immature which may make things harder for you. A good idea is to babysit for a neighbor or someone you know who already has your trust then use them to refer you to others.
    i started babysitting neighborhood kids around 13/14. i think its a good age. you're old enough to watch over them and make sure nothing bad happens. but let me warn you, if you're babysitting boys who are only a few years younger, like 9, 10...it can be really rough, because they are rebellious and very hard to control because they feel like they dont have to listen to you, and that you're more of a peer then an authority figure. i went through that problem. but the younger ones were great. and the girls were never bad either.
    If you're serious about babysitting now, I would recommend looking into a safesitter course or a cpr course from your hospital. It's always great to be prepared and that shows you are really trying to be responsible.


    Also, babysitting babies is cute, but scary. SIDS, etc. I always babysat older ones.
    i dont think i would want a 13 year old babysitting my daughter. basically because they cant handle some situations with children.


    what if there was an emergency with the child, a 13 yr old would not be able to handle it as well as someone who was 18 could.





    wait a few more years before you start babysitting.





    good luck :)
    i'm nearly 16 but when i started babysitting i was 14 - i'd tried beforehand but no one would let me.





    my parents told me the same thing as yours have told you - unless youre a family friend they probably wont let you.





    but don't worry you don't have long to wait!
    i mean from your point of view, if someone offers it to you, you can handle it





    but personally, wouldnt you want someone older %26amp; more expierienced?
    i think its fine to babysit at 13. i started babysitting when i was 11. it started out by babysitting family, then family friends, and now other peoples kids. im 14 now.
    i wouldnt be happy only because at 13 years old they are not fully matured yet. In fact, 13 year olds need to be babysit themselves rather than babysit other kids. thats just my opinion anyway
    In some states it's illegal to leave a child under 16 alone without adult supervision (although it's rarely enforced). So if you have a parent who adheres 100% strictly by the rules...then good luck.
    no since you are only 13. i know you u are caring and mature but babysitting requires much experience and older people are more suitable for that
    I agree with Gooddad, though I think the legal age is 14 in the UK, so not long to wait.
    To watch over the 10 year old brother while the parents grab dinner? sure. longer than that or more than one child or a baby?





    Not until 14-15. Its dangerous
    depends you have to be mature enough! and know you pretty well i wouldn't trust a 13 yr old really tho. wait till you are older
    i say you should wait a little while, some people might not trust you as a 13 year old. sorry if this is not the answer u were hoping....
    If its a family friend or relative sure, if not dont trust someone that young!
    i think you should wait until you are a little older. people might not trust you just yet
    THATS TOO YOUNGE
    personally i would not let a 13 year old look after my daughter.
    i baby sit and im 11 i think 13 is fine
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  • I've been contemplating studying wildlife conservation and would be very grateful for some advice?

    I've thought about it for some time now but i've read that it's a very difficult field to get into and that you have to do a few years of volunteer before you can get a paying job.It's either that or social care.I'm very indecisive and i know it's a personal choice but any advice/tips/thoughts would be much appreciated.Thankyou.I've been contemplating studying wildlife conservation and would be very grateful for some advice?
    Focus always at studying wildlife. And study Very Very Very Very Hard. Join trainings in wildlife rehabilating and others regarding wildlife and the most of all, pray to God.





    You can join our group at http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/disco鈥?/a>


    then post your questions.I've been contemplating studying wildlife conservation and would be very grateful for some advice?
    It's not THAT hard to get into. I worked halftime in fisheries (yeah, I know it's not exactly the same thing) during my senior year in college and had summer jobs with two states and with the USF%26amp;WS. If I'd majored in the field and done well during those summers, I think I could have had a good permanent job, presuming I found a suitable opening. Granted, volunteer work wouldn't hurt, until you can get paid work.

    I am soon to be a mother to a Pitbull and already have a cat and a Boston Terrier/Pug... Any advice?

    I am very excited to have another dog join our family. I am wondering if anyone has a similar situation and if they have any tips/advice to give to a first-time Pitty owner?I am soon to be a mother to a Pitbull and already have a cat and a Boston Terrier/Pug... Any advice?
    First timer, eh?





    What do you know about the background of the dog? Has this dog been evaluated behaviorally?





    My concern is for your other animals. Pit bulls are terriers, and terriers are genetically predisposed to prey drive and animal agression. These levels vary considerably, even in litter mates, from very high levels of prey drive/animal agression to none at all. It's advisable that you learn the in's and out's of these behaviors before comitting to a pit bull. If he's a young pup, make sure to socialize at every opportunity. If he's an older dog, make sure he's been tested with cats and other animals. You don't want any surprises.





    Also, these dogs are athletes, and need lots of physical stimulation. His exercise requirements will be much more than your current mix.





    Do some breed research before you commit. Its best to be prepared for both the wonderful, and the not-so-great qualities of the breed.I am soon to be a mother to a Pitbull and already have a cat and a Boston Terrier/Pug... Any advice?
    I don't want to sound rude but be prepared to lose a cat. Pit bulls are terriers and have a high prey drive and have been know to kill cats and other small animals. (I won't even let my Jack Russell Terrier/Lab mix around cats)





    Also is this your first pit?





    I hope you have done your research I don't know if that is the best terrier for a first time terrier owner (or have you had terriers before) You need to be a pack leader and you have to have a strong handle on the dog.





    Be sure to put this dog is classes and do you know the background of the dog, has he been temperment tested.








    Good luck
    My son brought home a red nosed pit as a puppy and he is now 14 months old. We already have a cat.





    He is the BEST dog we have ever owned!! I give total credit of that to my son who did a great job of teaching him good habits since the beginning.





    I used to think pits were bad dogs (since they get sunch a bad rap all the time) but I have come to realize that it is the owner NOT the dog when they do bad things!





    Enjoy!
    I've never owned a pit, but I found a puppy and brought it home. My dogs seemed to like him and had him for 2 weeks. Then out of nowhere they all attacked and killed him. Just a heads up when bringing a new pet into the household :(
    Most will get along ok with other dogs, but a few won't. Have them meet on neutral territory, someplace they can have fun, like a park.
    I would try to introduce everyone outside maybe so no one gets territorial... but I'm sure everything will be fine ... I have a pit and a potbelly pig that are best friends so anything is possible! good luck
    Be careful!


    Pit Bulls are known to be aggressive with other dogs.


    All dog to dog and dog to cat play should be closely supervised!





    Good luck!
    well take real good care of them sometime they can be a handful but luving does.
    LOTS OF LUCK !!! WHY A PITT? WITH A CAT %26amp; A SMALL BREED? ARE YOU JUST LOOKING FOR TROUBLE??

    If you could give any advice to the John and Kate Plus Eight family what would it be?

    If you could give any advice to the John and Kate Plus Eight family what would it be?If you could give any advice to the John and Kate Plus Eight family what would it be?
    deep six the reality show you got. no point going on with the show when one party has filed for divorce. jon and kate, you need to get your act together and think of the kids.If you could give any advice to the John and Kate Plus Eight family what would it be?
    I believe it's John's fault.


    Yes, Kate can get bitchy %26amp; demanding but there are so many different ways of handling the problem then what he's doing right now.








    i cant blame them for wanting to still run the show for the $ ;


    they are providing for their kids and i would still go thru with it to, as in 99.9% of people in their position would.





    I think its just sad bc they had a perfect looking family.





    %26amp; i dont understand why everyone's trying to blame Kate when its more John's fault than hers.





    He needs to grow up and be a man and put his family first and get out of his midlife crisist, but i guess it's too late. he already ruined his family.





    and if you havent noticed - he's the one who filed for divorce. NOT KATE.





    he needs some serious physcological help.





    if he knew he was gonna have 8 kids he needed to keep it togther.





    otherwise, he should of kept it in his pants.





    Kate has a tough job , taking care of 8 little kids 24.7





    all awhile johns out getting booty for a 20 something year old whos probably only taking him for a ride for fame %26amp; money.





    have you seen how quick her brother was qucik to have the news at his doorstep about her and john ? yeah.





    i dont blame kate at all. i have sympathy for her. ALOT of it.





    and if i were her i dont know what i would do. bless you kate. %26lt;3
    kate stop being a ***** to jon and belittling him and give him some credit you have serious issues about being a control freak you both are great parents and I think the money and fame really broke you two up and I don't think I will be watching the show its going to be too sad and the kids are going to need private time to deal with you two not being together jon yes needs to take responsibility for his actions in public but he has learned his lesson and I hope he doesn't do anything stupid or embarrassing because the kids will find out and question it as I see it there is no hope for this marriage go on with your lives I dont see the tv show lasting that long its more tension filled and emotional and I am sorry to see the two of you break up but you both are good parents and this will blow over I hope you two are saving some of that money you are going to need it and Jon I hope you are looking for work I feel in this situation the kids have no life and are too exposed to the public the duggars know how to handle this type of thing and are a great example of the american family
    To Kate - If you try to belittle your husband every chance you get, then don't be surprised if he leaves you.





    To John - Now that you're sort of famous you should be able to get a better girl.





    To the kids - Sue your parents.
    stop being selfish and get your family together...its not worth living for yourself when your kids are being greatly affected by those choices..
    At this point,their kids should be the ones that needs the most care for.
    stop the show and go to therapy if it don't work out then go ahead and get divorce.
    RUN JON RUN
    Maybe you should pay more attention to your kids instead of the paycheck you receive. What's more important?
    Kate stop being such a ***** to your husband and kids. Good for you John
    Get the hell out of there Jon!
    stop being money hungry

    What advice to give to someone who thinks they may be getting annorexic?

    Sorry if i spelled annorexic wrong, but i have a really good friend who thinks she may be becoming annorexic. What advice could I give to her? She's beautiful and I dont want to see her get hurt. She's skinny but not annorexic skinny...yet. I'm worried. She hasnt done anything bad about it yet but she thinks she might. Thanks.What advice to give to someone who thinks they may be getting annorexic?
    EAT SOMETHINGWhat advice to give to someone who thinks they may be getting annorexic?
    Just be there for you, tell her you are there for her if she ever needs to talk.. she has to find her own help.. thats the only way it can be done. She may not even think she has a problem but you know she does. Talk to someone you can trust.
    Just be there for her. Keep giving her the heads up. Another thing you (and her) might want to do is talk to guys and get their opinion. When it comes to our appearance, we usually consider the opinions from the opposite sex. If I guy told me that I was losing muscle, I'll brush it off. If a girl told me the same thing, I'm heading straight to the gym.





    I'm a straight guy (and to be bluntly honest), most of us like T%26amp;A or some sort of it. To see a girl who's annorexic or way too skinny (by choice), it's very very unattractive.





    Hope this helps. :-)
    Let her know the problems with being annorexic.





    How it can make your hair grow in thicker (on your face and arms), how not eating slows your metabolism (making you burn less fat when doing normal activities and burn off any food she does nibble on slower), how it can mess of your period, how it can make you lack energy and put black rings around your eyes, etc., etc. The list goes on and on.





    Tell her if she has the will power to stop eating completely, then she has the will power to restrict her eating and lose weight healthily. It's better her eat less than not at all.





    Start weight training with her.. find a gym you guys can go together, if possible, and take a body works class (light weights, lots of reps, usually packed with women). If you do it together, it'll be fun. I'm sure she's skinny, but getting a firm body and some sexy muscles might boost her confidence. If you can't find a cheap gym, maybe you can rent a weight training DVD or work out at the school gym or something.
    Your getting fat.

    Trying to be a first time homeowner - any advice before I sign?

    I'm not there yet, but I plan to be ready in March of 08 to buy my first house. I've taken 15 hours of credit classes, I have $5k saved up, and I'm trying to get down payment assistance. Does anyone have any additional advice like unexpected costs (besides closing costs) and surprises that maybe happened to you when you bought your first house? I know to stay in my budget and not buy something I really can't afford. But for instance, do I find a lender first and then a house, or is it vice versa? And after I find a house and a lender, how long does it take to close? Is it stressful getting all your paperwork together?Trying to be a first time homeowner - any advice before I sign?
    I bought my first house in 1999 I know some stuff may have changed since then but for the most part buying a house is stressful unless you find the right broker. Always make sure to have the house unless new inspected for termites(new home have already had that done )Make sure to bargain with the homeowner a warranty usually 1 year on structual and appliances. If moving into a development do some research on the area. Schools, shopping and future plans the developer has for that area. If it's a neighborhood talk to the neighbors and look at the yards, they will tell you alot.Do a background on the house your intrested in to see if it has had any major insurance claims filed whether claimed or not this could affect your ability to get affordable homeowners insurance or not. This is some of the important things but there are more.You should pre-qualify yourself and/or spouse to see if you are able to get decent financing, by doing this the lender will be able to tell you how much house you can afford before you start. The rule is your house payment should not exceed 28% of your gross income. The paperwork is quite extensive but if you have the right person helping you it not all that bad. Financing can be tricky, unless you have a fluid income try to avoid adjustable rate and balloon financing. This should give you the basics. I hope this helps. Oh and ALWAYS remember the real estate agent always work for the seller. Be smart, Be wise and good luck to you.Trying to be a first time homeowner - any advice before I sign?
    Find a lender and find out how much you qualify for. Go for the simplest mortgage you can - 30 yr fixed, no ARM, no interest-only. Do not buy the most house you can afford.





    There are always other expenses. Always. You will always need a garage door, or aAC unit, or a new dishwasher, and you do not want to be broke all the time.





    A realtor is very helpful. Be sure you have the house inspected before you buy it (even if it isn't required by your lender). Try to out more money away for a down payment. The more you have, the more favorable your rates will be.





    Best of luck to you.
    Hi there! I recently just bought my first home with my husband and I recently also became a real estate agent. I would look around at your local agents and contact one. They should be able to explain the whole process to you in person. Contact me if you have any more questions. :)
    You can get pre-qualified with a lender, this will let you know how much you can actually borrow. See if your state or locality has programs to help low-income residents buy their first homes. And: GET A HOME INSPECTOR. Most home purchase contracts let you cancel if you don't like the result of the inspection--make sure anything you sign has a clause like that. The inspector can point out major flaws and give you an idea of what repairs you will have to make in the first few years you own the place; he might show you repairs the seller should make immediately before he sells the house to you. FHA loans require the roof be in good shape and they won't loan money till it's fixed. The bank will require a termite inspection at your cost. You will also have to pay a portion of the sales taxes and transfer fees on the house.
    I'm not in real estate. There are many people on here who are, so you'll probably get a really good answer on this question, but this is what worked for me.





    1. I shopped around for a mortgage broker (lender). I talked with some folks I knew, as well as checked the local paper for brokers who catered to first time home buyers.





    2. I talked to the broker and he reviewed my credit and income. He gave me a range of a house I could afford based on the information he had, and then showed me some estimates on what the payment range would be.





    3. I went home, and plugged those numbers in for my budget. I live in an area where it can be very hot during the summer and very cold during the winter. I called my parents to find out what they paid in heat and air conditioning costs, and factored that in. I also factored in the basics (cable, phone, electric, gas, water/sewer, garbage) and my transportation (car, price of gas, etc.). I also put a little bit aside for savings each month, and general upkeep of the house. Then, I balanced it by lowering the amount of house payment until the numbers balanced out.





    4. I went back to the mortgage broker, and told her how much I wanted to pay per month, and asked what she recommended.





    5. She gave me a house price point, and printed me out a pre-approval letter to have (this was a few years ago, when the market was so strong that you weren't taken seriously unless you were pre-approved).





    6. I took the price point and my pre-approval letter to my real estate agent, and we started looking!





    The most stressful part of buying my first house was the fear of the unknown. As soon as I started working with these folks, it was a really easy process and everyone is there to help (because they all make money based on you finding, financing and purchasing a house).





    Good Luck!
    Find a lender first. They will tell you what price range you can look in for a home. In a lot of places, agents won't even give you their time unless you have an approval letter from a lender.





    How long does it take to close? It varies. Depends on the people you are buying it from, their schedule, the type of loan you have, and how quickly you (and everybody else) gets their work done on it. I've closed in as little as 2 weeks and as long as 3 months.





    If you are organized, paperwork is not big deal at all. If you aren't, then it can be a headache.
    Try to have 10% for your downpayment. That way you avoid having to have an escrow account. Definitely go with a fixed-rate mortgage, no matter what. Closing took one whole day for us. Half the paperwork was messed up. It was very stressful. Also, plan on spending a lot of money at Lowe's or Home Depot the first three months. It's amazing all these little things you need all the sudden that you never needed before.


    If you're renting right now, utilities/insurance will go up. Don't forget about property taxes, which can be significant, depending on where you live. Same goes for flood insurance.


    We found the house first and then got a lender directly through the builder. Hope this helps and it's not too discouraging. Buying a house was definitely one of the best decisions we ever made. It's so much better than renting.
    Starting at the last question and working back.





    For me it is always stressful to borrow money, and I think it should be.





    I bet that the time involved depends on the state whose laws you fall under. In Texas it can close as quick as two weeks- it usually takes three to four weeks. Part of the time depends on the seller and how quick they want to close-it is negotiated in your contract.





    Ask family or close friends who they have used as a home lender and ask if they were happy with the experience. Ask them the same thing about real estate agents. Do not pick out a lender or agent based on an advertisement. Contact the lender first. Then once you have got your letter of qualification go see homes with your agent.





    When I bought my first house I was surprised by all the things I needed/wanted to buy. Furniture, lawn equipment, ceiling fans, curtains, flowers, etc....





    Owning my own home has been wonderful for my marriage and for my finances.





    I wish many happy years and blessings for you.
    Get per-approved first. No sence looking at a home that you can't afford.
    just something noone else seems to have touched on- I bought with my hubby our first house thru hud.gov and we paid about 55-65 percent of the value well I think 63000 on a 100,000 house which is really good in our area. at closing there are kickbacks with hud for taxes and I dont know what all but it came to about 7,000 back toward our loan off of the bid amount. wells fargo gave us a 30 yr fixed loan for 6.25 and we are very happy with our home. our rates varied from that to 12 percent so it was a good rate for us. we did put 10 thou down and we specifically asked for a escrow account so much easier to let them handle all the various payments

    Im new to shooting and would like any advice on which shotgun should be my first?

    I intend on using the gun for clays, small game hunting and home protection.Im new to shooting and would like any advice on which shotgun should be my first?
    Realize that there is no do all be all shotgun..... A gun well suited for clays like an over under double barrel is a poor choice for defense.... A short barrel security shotgun on the other hand is a real bad choice for shooting clays.... Then add hunting choices and things become even less clear.....





    If you have the budget I would say purchase 2 shotguns.....





    Anyways --- If your budget is tight then surely look over the Mossberg 500 12 guage pump shotgun... Specifically the combo model that is shipped with 2 barrels.... A long one for hunting and clays.... And a short barrel that you can install in 45 seconds to keep handy for defense.....





    Take a look.....





    http://www.mossberg.com/images/Mossberg_鈥?/a>





    Mossberg catalog # 54169.... About $350 at your local Mossberg dealer.......





    http://www.mossberg.com/products/default鈥?/a>Im new to shooting and would like any advice on which shotgun should be my first?
    Now since you mentioned home defense I would suggest a Mossberg 500 or Remington 870.





    These are used by both hunters and law enforcement. You can some times find either one with two barrels, a long one for bird hunting and a short one for home defense. It doesn't take but a few minutes to swap barrels. You can also order a rifled barrel for slugs if you decide to hunt deer. The shotgun is a very versatile firearm.





    Have fun and be safe.
    A Remington 870 express or a Remington 870 wingwaster is your best bet. If you get a combo package you will get a rifled barrel for deer with the shotgun. I would buy a 12ga or a 20 ga the ammo is everywhere.
    O/U are great for clays but,can be expensive unless that's no problem. Browning Citori is a good one





    I would suggest a pump action Rem 870 or Rem 1100/1187 semi auto.
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  • Advice on how to be fit and gain muscle?

    Ok I'm 17 and I have been going to the gym for a while now and I know what to do in the gym but what else could I be doing? I take protein shakes. I alternate between casein and whey protein. Is there anything else I could do to make things happen a little quicker? Please give me your advice. Thank you.Advice on how to be fit and gain muscle?
    do compound movements when working out like squats, deadlifts, powercleans, bench press and overhead press and eat foods with high protein such as tuna and white meats. taking a whey protein shake after workouts will really help too for adding mass and repairing muscles.Advice on how to be fit and gain muscle?
    I don't know about gaining muscle. But I look pretty toned in general, just because I'm pretty sure I have 0% body fat. So you could work on the diet part I guess...

    How should I react to compliments (GUY advice would be great on this)?

    When guys give me compliments I get really shy and glance at the ground and say thanks. I feel like if I don't look shy about it, they'll think i'm conceded.


    GUYS, if you gave a girl a compliment, what kind of reaction would make you attracted to them?How should I react to compliments (GUY advice would be great on this)?
    Say thanks and compliment him back. Like if he says ';You look beautiful tonight'; You could say ';thanks, your not so bad yourself'; or something like that. You dont look shy or conceded that wayHow should I react to compliments (GUY advice would be great on this)?
    ';Thanks :)';

    Is it necessary to have both a summary and an objective on your resume? Any advice would be appreciated!?

    No, your cover letter is somewhat of a summary and objective.Is it necessary to have both a summary and an objective on your resume? Any advice would be appreciated!?
    I was watching Dr Phil the other night and he had pros giving advice...they said that you should NEVER use an objective line. The only time to use it is when it's in reference to a specific technical job. Like Engineering or Computer Techs.





    Cover letters work really well, and you can put that as your summary. Good luck!

    What would be the best piece of advice you would give a first time mum?

    what would be the best piece of advice you would give a first time mum about the first year of babies life?What would be the best piece of advice you would give a first time mum?
    Sleep when your baby sleeps! I didn't and I was so exhausted.


    Don't get anxious for every little thing. Enjoy every single day with your little angel - they grow so fast!What would be the best piece of advice you would give a first time mum?
    ENJOY IT!!!!





    DON'T CIRCUMCISE YOUR LITTLE BOY, HE IS PERFECT AS IS!!!





    Follow your gut, books are good, but your instincts are far superior





    A good camera and camcorder is worth the investment





    Go easy on yourself, you are gonna screw up so dont obsess over every little thing





    Take care of yourself and your relationship, your baby needs happy parents





    Co-sleeping help everyone get the rest they need





    You can never be prepared, just know that the training is on the job



    If it won't matter in 5 years, it doesn't matter today.





    By that I mean the little stuff, it just doesn't matter, and isn't worth stressing over. Enjoy your baby, love her/him, and spend the time with baby, you will never get it back. Nothing is worth the time spent with a child.
    Enjoy them while they are little cuz it doesnt last long. Also, take care of YOU! Otherwise you wont be able to take care of anyone else. Lastly, give yourself 6months to a year to let your body heal. It freaks you out at first to see what your bod looks like post baby, but it WILL get betterl. Trust me on this one.
    DONT take time for granted seems like just yesturday i had my son and hes turning 2 in Jan! they really really do grow so fast...take lots of video and lots of pics...give ALOT of TLC , talk to your baby alot, let him explore new things everyday! Teach him everything you know...even if you think he doesnt understand ...he does. Treat your son how you would have wanted to be treated :) congrats being a mommy is the best thing in then whole world!





    Proud mommy of 2 little boys
    to listen to other peoples advice but always do it how you think is the best .





    And to enjoy baby being immobile as when they can crawl they never stay where you put them anbd you have to watch them all the time !
    To take care of herself when she feels the need even if she feels bad for doing it becasue you have to take care of yourself to take care of your child properly!
    Get as much sleep as you can.
    enjoy your baby enjoy it spend as much time as you can cause they grow so fast
    Learn to listen, and discard, advice from well-meaning moms who may not know nearly as much as they think they do.
    buy lots and lots of burp cloths cus i guarantee you will be soaked with spit-up at the end of the day good luck.
    Hug and kiss your baby a lot, enjoy every single moment... They grow so fast :) My baby girl is just 5 weeks, and this is one advice I make sure to follow.
    follow your intuition
    take lots of picture because they change so fast!!

    How would be the best way to tell him?!! Girls and guys i need major advice-age?

    How would i tell my boyfriend that i was our relationship to be more....romantic. I've never kissed a guy before and I kind of wished he would make the move already.


    We've been going out for almost a year now. I need guidelines! Cuz all of my friends are guys and they are all kinky little bast*rds.How would be the best way to tell him?!! Girls and guys i need major advice-age?
    how old are you?How would be the best way to tell him?!! Girls and guys i need major advice-age?
    you sound young. Give him your body. best way
    It takes two to tango. Jump his bones. I'm sure he'll appreciate it!

    What would be the after care advice you would give a client after having a fake tan done ?

    what would you say 2 a client after she had her tan done ?


    What would be the after care advice you would give a client after having a fake tan done ?
    It depends what type of tanning treatment has been done. The advice would be very different for a tanning booth (sitting under UV lamps) to a spray tan.





    With fake tans (spray tans etc), you have to give time for the products to work with the skin - this varies from product to product, but the advice is normally to not wash for a period of time (can be around 12 hours).





    I would recommend you check the instructions, or check with a senior assistant at your salon.
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  • Tomorrow I will be interviewed for a position on my school's literary magazine. Advice?

    I'm applying for assistant editor or literary editor.


    What are some tips I should follow in preparing?


    Any advice?


    What are some questions I should expect?Tomorrow I will be interviewed for a position on my school's literary magazine. Advice?
    Not specific to the particular job you're interviewing for... but simple guidelines for interviews...





    Go in prepared..sounds dumb but so many people are unorganized and nervous


    Have a some questions thought out ahead of time that you can ask...it always looks good... shows that you're interested in the job


    Be prepared to answer questions like : why should we hire you for this, or why do you qualify for this


    also: what are your best and worst traits


    If you have any examples of your work bring it with you


    Look neat, organized and happy (what I mean is try not to be nervous, make eye contact, nod, show acknowledgment and smile)

    Im a new mom to be in a lesbian relationship and could use some advice?

    I am 20 years old and I am 6months pregnant with my first child and I am in a lesbian relationship. (I have been with the same person for years) I was just wondering if I could get some advice on some things I might face as a gay parent.Im a new mom to be in a lesbian relationship and could use some advice?
    The first thing I think is important for your family is an attorney that is familiar with LGBT family law. Not sure what state your from, but there are many things you can do to protect your family. Here are just a few examples, and certainly is not a complete list.





    -Power of Attorney for consent to medical care for a minor. You may need this for your partner if she is ever the one taking the child in for medical care or an emergency.





    - Wills for your estate





    - Guardianship documents in the case of your death.





    Also check into your states laws regarding same sex co-adoption.





    After you get all that legal mumbo jumbo done I suggest that you interview pediatricians. Find one that is comfortable with your family, see if they will require a copy of the Power of attorney for consent to medical care for a minor to be on file. Our pediatrician is awesome. We are treated with respect. And I, being the non-biological parent to our children am treated as an equal.





    You will also want to do the same when finding child care for your baby. Interview the caregivers, be up front about your family and ensure that they have no problem with same sex couples.





    What we have found to work the best for our family is to have open and honest conversations with the people that are in our children's lives. From doctors to caregivers and teachers. And luckily we have never had a negative experience.





    Our children are still young being only 6 years old and 4 years old. But they have friends and are treated well. My back yard is routinely filled with neighborhood kids that come over to play with our children. We pretty much approach life as if we don't expect any problems with people accepting our family. And so far it's all worked out fine.





    Hope this helped. Feel free to e-mail me should you have any questions.











    LIm a new mom to be in a lesbian relationship and could use some advice?
    other parents, their kids, and teachers being uncomfortable


    child wants a father-like role model


    child being picked on





    that's probably the biggest ones. if you love your child and always try your best(which i'm sure you will since you're on here to get good advice to help your child)just always be aware of possible negativity and be ready to intervene if something alarming happens. I may be crazy, but i think you'll make a great parent. good luck
    You'll face the same thiings a straight mother would. You might get some weird stuff when your kid gets older, but all you can do is love your child and provide them with a safe nurturing environment :).

    What does a memorandam of advice have to be outlined as?

    HOW would i begin it, its for my law project.


    and what would the outline be, ive been told its not as essay. and needs to be numbered paragraphs....bit confused





    thanksWhat does a memorandam of advice have to be outlined as?
    A memorandum of advice is essentially a briefing - in it, you need to set out in a series of paras, the basic 'need to know' outline of the matter/case.

    I am auditioning for ';Who wants to be a millionaire.'; Does anyone have advice for me?

    Be yourself! You are great the way you are!I am auditioning for ';Who wants to be a millionaire.'; Does anyone have advice for me?
    I've considered doing the same. On the few occasions when I've watched the show, I can answer all questions without hesitation except questions involving sports and entertainment.


    I have never considered those topics to be of any real importance in my life.


    I would locate friends and acquaintances who are well versed in the topics I am not good at and when needed, call the appropriate friend if confronted with a question I couldn't answer.I am auditioning for ';Who wants to be a millionaire.'; Does anyone have advice for me?
    study study study
    is that even on anymore?
    You need to be memorable, so make people really like you or hate you.
    ';cough'; Not really !
    be yourself, be confident. thats all you need bro. and good luck!

    I am dating a transsexual, advice would be greatly appreciated?

    I am currently in a relationship with a pre-transitional transsexual woman (technically, she's not yet 18, but whatever). I don't know when she is intending on coming out, but I wish to be as supportive as possible. Would someone who is in a similar relationship please offer their expertise?





    Also, please be mature about the subject matter, and be respectful. Any rude comments will be removed, and if that is not an option, the question itself will be removed.I am dating a transsexual, advice would be greatly appreciated?
    First off I would like to Congratulate you and forward a huge nod of approval for your support and understanding of Transsexuality. You, and those like you, help me remember not all people are ignorant and mean.





    I am a Transsexual girl, married, and a mother.





    My suggestion, when she is ready to come out she will need tremendous support. I would highly recommend preparing yourself mentally to be able to provide unlimited support and advice. Coming out is never an easy process--we tend to lose those most closest to us and we face tons of pain with our self-esteem and confidence. A figure in her life, one of support and love, will get her through this.





    Though it is rare everyone in her life will accept her transition, if this happens to be the case, your presence of support will remind her how much she is important to you and those around her.





    I can't think of anything more important than the feeling of love and support through transition.





    Also, the first few months after starting hormone therapy, she may feel very addicted to looking in the mirror--to see what changes are brought upon by having the correct sex hormone in her body. She may be looking for breast development, fat redistribution, etc. In my experience, each day waking up those early months of hormone therapy, it felt like Christmas morning!





    A good compliment here and there will move mountains, even a subtle, ';You look great';.





    This is a fun difficult painful exciting defining journey she is about to embark on. Just remember, she will be the same person in her heart, just more at peace with her body. Your support is greatly welcomed in her life and will ensure a much easier transition.





    But don't fail to neglect yourself in the process, be sure to maintain positivity throughout. And if there comes a time you need your own boost, don't be afraid to talk it with her and/or to engage in activities together which brings something good, happy, and positive.





    The absolute best of luck to you both. Goodluck!





    I am dating a transsexual, advice would be greatly appreciated?
    hormones emotional times are very tough!She needs hugs and reassurance and support


    be with understanding people(new friends in worst case) prepared for the worst, and hope for the best


    So far we have come out to my folks, and all our friends and none is lost! now we have her folks, religious to tell

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    Im on the other end from you in that I am the one that needed to transition. I am also much older but that is not a issue. I lost my wife because of this but meet a great guy later. He fully accept me and what I am going through. He plans to be there when I go for surgery next year.





    Early on I had a lot of issues with low self esteem and fear of rejection. I had just lost the one person I loved more then life. The best thing he could do for me was to just be there for me. To tell me I looked nice even when I knew I didn't. There were many times I just needed a shoulder to lean on or cry on and he would let me pour out what I was dealing with. He was there for me on the longest night of my life when I was not sure I would see the next day.





    What I'm saying is be there for her. She has a long journey before her and will need someone that she can trust and love.
    I'm a transsexual girl (yes, under 18) in a relationship with a femme woman (19).


    I came out to my parents in September '07. It wasn't the easiest thing to do since I didn't know how to slowly sway the topic to that direction.


    Long story short, I just said it.


    Things today have been greater than ever. I guess I could say that i'm lucky to have such wonderful parents.





    Everyone wants to 'come out.' And i'm sure your special 'she' will come out in her own way when the time is right.





    Best wishes.
    Hugs. Lots of hugs and love. It goes a long way just to have someone hold you after a long day of stress and tell you that you are doing okay.





    That's how Lunchbox made all my bad days go away in the early months of getting my transition underway at college.
    First off, please treat her exactly the same was as any born female. The whole purpose of transition is to get everyone to treat you as if you had been born and raised in the correct body, and to have the same life as others of your correct gender.





    Next, transsexuals (ie., those who plan on or have changed their physical sex through surgery because of an inherent medical condition) tend not to come out like transgenders (any non-transsexual who lives or dresses outside their gender without evidence of a medical cause), homosexuals, and bisexuals. The whole reason for the surgeries and procedures is to hide and live a mainsteam, non-LGBT lifestyle. If you tell anyone you are a TS, then you have wasted all the money you have spent to make you look like a woman (or guy for FtMs). Having surgery to destroy your original sex so you won't be discriminated against and then going around blabbing it in order to be discriminated against or wear a chip defeats the entire purpose.





    So TSs tend to transition rather than ';come out.'; The only type of ';coming out'; they do is when they annouce their medical problem to those who knew them as the fake person they were forced to be. That is no more ';coming out'; (with the homosexual connotation) than is telling family members you have another medical condition such as cancer.





    Think of TSism as a medical condition, and TS women as women born with a serious medical condition and correcting it, not as ';men who choose to become women.'; Unlike with the TG, the true born-TS woman has no choice other than to fix their medical condition.